HAVING
A GOOD FRIEND
Having
a good friend and being good friend, can
enrich our days and bring us lifelong statisfaction. Frienship however, do not
just happen. Bulding losting friendship,
takes time and effort, many of us say, I’d like to have more friends. I just
don’t have time, yet, we all have time
for ather things we really want to do. What makes someone a good friend?
Here
are some ways for building lasting friendship.
1.
NOTE A
LITTLE THINGS.
A friend is someone who stand by
us during difficult times, simple little acts of caring keep friendship going
the birthday card, the greetings card to ask “How are you?”
Or to wish “good luck in your
examinations, ‘such thoughtfull act help strengthen friendships. Many people do
not like telling friend their deepest feeling. They are also afraid to express their
fears and disappointment. They think that. If their Friends know their
weaknesses, they will not be like. But this is not true, good friend will
support us and accept us for what we are.
2.
DO NOT KEEP SCORE.
Very often, people start keeping score on the duties of friendship. Who
was the lost one to write or phone? A French writer: Alexander Domaz, says that
the art of friendship is “ forgetting what one gives, and remembering what one receives” in other words, when we forget abaout what we
may get in return compared with what we give, we will make more friends.
3.
LET OUR FRIEND BE GENEROUS
It may be better to give than ti recieve just us we feel happy to help
a friend, give him a change to help us. Do not be too proud to accept a friends
kindness or offer to help.
4.
LOUGH WITH OUR FRIEND
A Doctor and writer Sir William Osler, called laughter the music of life” it is laughter that can
brigten a friends day and bring good
friend closer laughter can also release tension.
